PS2BG | Ag3 | m | (No name, age 35, general practitioner) unspecified |
PS2BH | X | f | (No name, age unknown) unspecified |
(PS2BH) |
[1] I've come of a new [...] |
(PS2BG) | [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[2] please. |
(PS2BG) |
[3] Let's have a look. [4] This is the Noraday yeah . |
(PS2BH) |
[5] Noraday yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[6] Everything okay on that? |
(PS2BH) |
[7] Yeah, fine yeah . |
(PS2BG) |
[8] Periods behaving? |
(PS2BH) |
[9] Erm sometimes I have a a good period, like |
(PS2BG) |
[10] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[11] I used to on er |
(PS2BG) |
[12] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[13] other pill. |
(PS2BG) |
[14] [...] yeah that's right. |
(PS2BH) |
[15] But sometimes I don't have one or |
(PS2BG) |
[16] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[17] sometimes it's just one |
(PS2BG) |
[18] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[19] day. |
(PS2BG) |
[20] Yeah, a bit erratic ? |
(PS2BH) |
[21] [...] Er Yeah. [22] But |
(PS2BG) |
[23] Right, okay. |
(PS2BH) |
[24] no problem at all. |
(PS2BG) |
[25] Yes , that can happen on Noraday Waterworks? [26] Bowels? [27] Breasts? |
(PS2BH) |
[28] Yeah fine. |
(PS2BG) |
[29] All behaving? |
(PS2BH) |
[30] Yes. |
(PS2BG) |
[31] Right, now what we do need to do today is to get your blood pressure checked. |
(PS2BH) |
[32] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[33] How are things going on from the other point of view? |
(PS2BH) |
[34] Erm it get's |
(PS2BG) |
[35] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[36] a bit off still . |
(PS2BG) |
[37] Yes. |
(PS2BH) |
[38] Yeah. [39] we h we still haven't heard anything. |
(PS2BG) |
[40] From the psychologist? |
(PS2BH) |
[41] Er no, [...] go to see him . |
(PS2BG) |
[42] [...] you've you've got from them, certainly. |
(PS2BH) |
[43] Yeah. [44] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[45] But you're still in limbo as far as the |
(PS2BH) |
[46] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[47] the civil action is concerned? |
(PS2BH) |
[48] Erm even no second inquest, nothing . |
(PS2BG) |
[49] Oh. [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[50] But er apparently [...] got a solicitor. [51] Er we haven't had to see anybody about that and he sent us a letter saying that he'd like to see us and we went and he says it there might not be a second inquest. |
(PS2BG) |
[52] Oh. |
(PS2BH) |
[53] Might go straight to court. |
(PS2BG) |
[54] Ah. |
(PS2BH) |
[55] And then we had a phone call from the police, about a month ago. |
(PS2BG) |
[56] Oh right, good. |
(PS2BH) |
[57] Saying that it had gone straight to court, it was in court, you know, |
(PS2BG) |
[58] Oh right. |
(PS2BH) |
[59] but we haven't heard anything. |
(PS2BG) |
[60] Oh well I mean they may have been adjourned or a |
(PS2BH) |
[61] Even though |
(PS2BG) |
[62] it may have been referred to a higher court. |
(PS2BH) |
[63] You think so. |
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(PS2BH) |
[64] Erm |
(PS2BG) |
[65] I mean we we haven't heard anything directly, I'm only glad that the police are actually telling you something. |
(PS2BH) |
[66] Yeah yeah. |
(PS2BG) | [cough] |
(PS2BH) |
[67] It it was a big shock that day, when we had that phone call |
(PS2BG) |
[68] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[69] But it was I You know, to know that you haven't got to fight, |
(PS2BG) |
[70] That's right, yeah . |
(PS2BH) |
[71] T to take him to court. |
(PS2BG) | [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[72] Erm |
(PS2BG) |
[73] But it's a long process. [74] I mean we have dealings with solicitors for all sorts of things, asking for reports and we send a lot of notes away to have a lot of er [...] medical opinion reports and they take ages to come back. [75] And that's a These are the preliminary things that the solicitor must go through before they get near court, so |
(PS2BH) |
[76] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[77] the people |
(PS2BH) |
[78] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[79] who it's actually They're actually dealing with are waiting months and months and months and er |
(PS2BH) |
[80] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[81] it looks like that in your case. [82] We |
(PS2BH) | [...] |
(PS2BG) |
[83] we may well have to provide the medical report on your behalf, yet. |
(PS2BH) |
[84] God. |
(PS2BG) |
[85] But n no-one has approached me to do so. |
(PS2BH) |
[86] No no. |
(PS2BG) |
[87] So er But it wouldn't surprise me if some sort of medical report on how you are doesn't reach court. |
(PS2BH) |
[88] It erm Mr who we see Psychologist erm The first week I went to see him, Oh [...] . [89] It t d [...] certainly, you know erm |
(PS2BG) |
[90] Yeah. [91] It's very |
(PS2BH) |
[92] Erm |
(PS2BG) |
[93] hard. |
(PS2BH) |
[94] We Do you know when we start doing something, we'll do it and even if we do things different [...] gonna say? [95] We thinking well why are we doing it this way ? |
(PS2BG) |
[96] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[97] So er everything's pulling at us, |
(PS2BG) |
[98] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[99] you know. [100] W we seem as though we do something and we [...] W we are absolutely drained , |
(PS2BG) |
[101] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[102] you get We want to push ourselves. |
(PS2BG) |
[103] That's right. |
(PS2BH) |
[104] But do you know, once we start doing something w we're just drained all the while. |
(PS2BG) |
[105] In some ways you're in limbo cos you've you've got nothing to aim towards. [106] You've |
(PS2BH) |
[107] No. |
(PS2BG) |
[108] got I mean if Even if you had a date to aim towards, even if it was six months hence, at least that would help you, you could |
(PS2BH) |
[109] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[110] aim towards it and work towards it. |
(PS2BH) |
[111] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[112] But er and I think it's most unfair on you two really and the whole thing. [113] And you you come off worse than anyone else and er but there's no real way of speeding that up, they can't give |
(PS2BH) |
[114] No. |
(PS2BG) |
[115] dates and they can't say what's going to happens [...] they have to go through, sift the evidence, arrange it all in a certain order, |
(PS2BH) | [...] |
(PS2BG) |
[116] and then go and |
(PS2BH) |
[117] Rachael, she's coming home Well she was she was discharged Friday from hospital . |
(PS2BG) |
[118] Mm. [119] Oh right. |
(PS2BH) |
[120] And er they thought Thursday they'd have to do an operation on her by taking a piece of bone from her hip, |
(PS2BG) |
[121] Mhm. |
(PS2BG) |
[122] and putting it in the leg. [123] But they said it was knitting together lovely. |
(PS2BG) |
[124] Good good. |
(PS2BH) |
[125] But then they took the pins out, |
(PS2BG) |
[126] Ah. |
(PS2BH) |
[127] let her go home Friday, discharged her the day after. [128] She'd put too much weight on it, and she's back in hospital, she's broke it. |
(PS2BG) |
[129] Well they'll probably have to put at least the bone in there, it's a bone graft. |
(PS2BH) |
[130] They've put it in plaster at the moment . |
(PS2BG) |
[131] Yeah, [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[132] But s you know she she's mending, it's erm |
(PS2BG) | [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[133] She she's coming okay, I think |
(PS2BG) |
[134] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[135] You know to see her as well, that's som you know |
(PS2BG) |
[136] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[137] But we don't go as often now. |
(PS2BG) |
[138] No. |
(PS2BH) |
[139] Erm, [...] ... |
(PS2BG) |
[140] Right. |
(PS2BH) |
[141] Lovely, and |
(PS2BG) |
[142] [...] Th The six packets of Noraday |
(PS2BH) |
[143] Yeah, yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[144] [cough] Your smear is due in December. [145] Now I'm going to leave that with you. [146] If you really don't feel like coming up for a smear at that time, that's fine and we'll understand why. [147] And w There's an awful lot |
(PS2BH) |
[148] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[149] of pressure on you from an awful lot of other sources, so don't worry about it. [150] And |
(PS2BH) |
[151] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[152] But er you are |
(PS2BH) | [...] |
(PS2BG) |
[153] actually officially due in December and obviously we'd like |
(PS2BH) |
[154] Is that me three years? |
(PS2BG) |
[155] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[156] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[157] [cough] We'd like |
(PS2BH) |
[158] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[159] to get that done. |
(PS2BH) |
[160] Yeah. [161] Don't seem like three years. [laugh] |
(PS2BG) |
[162] Oh, no I'm sure. [163] The psychologist of course will continue to see you. [164] And if |
(PS2BH) |
[165] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[166] you want to pop in and have a chat with me in between that's fine, but I'm not here next week. |
(PS2BH) |
[167] Yeah, yeah. [...] |
(PS2BG) |
[168] [...] So that's that. [169] Er and I hope everything goes a smoothly as possible. [170] If there are any medical reports to do, we'll get them done as soon as possible but you know,a is that's very much out of our hands, and |
(PS2BH) |
[171] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[172] we can only wait on your solicitors, their solicitors, there's the police, the court, the entire system. |
(PS2BH) |
[173] You see we haven't notified any solicitor at all, it was |
(PS2BG) |
[174] No. |
(PS2BH) |
[175] just when we got back off holiday we'd got a letter from |
(PS2BG) |
[176] Well it's If the police are doing the prosecuting then you may |
(PS2BH) |
[177] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[178] not have to bother [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[179] Well it it Apparently there is a clause in Lee's insurance er that got the solicitor, |
(PS2BG) |
[180] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[181] and he notified us |
(PS2BG) |
[182] Right. |
(PS2BH) |
[183] and he said he would b represent. [184] But then he mentioned, when we wen to see him, he says [...] we will deal with this but you must get somebody for civil |
(PS2BG) |
[185] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[186] action. |
(PS2BG) |
[187] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[188] And we asked him if he did civil action . |
(PS2BG) |
[189] Oh right , yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[190] And he said yes he'd |
(PS2BG) |
[191] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[192] he would You know he hasn't g The records haven't got to be released then to |
(PS2BG) |
[193] No. |
(PS2BH) |
[194] anybody else. [195] he he will be able to get them. [196] But it's just hoping that everything goes right, but at least we |
(PS2BG) | [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[197] haven't got to fight for prosecution. |
(PS2BG) |
[198] No no. [199] That should go through, but er it's a question of when it's going to be though. [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[200] Yeah, yeah. [201] Do they usually take time like this? |
(PS2BG) |
[202] Yes. |
(PS2BH) |
[203] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[204] Yes. [205] Things from er data whenever can take ages and ages and ages to And you know doctors get sued every now and again, perish the thought, |
(PS2BH) |
[206] [laughing] Oh [...] [] |
(PS2BG) |
[207] Perish the thought but when |
(PS2BH) | [cough] |
(PS2BG) |
[208] y w you when you keep hearing reports in the medical journals about doctors being sued, and it can be several years after the event that the case comes to court. [209] Now it won't be that long in your case, but it just goes to show how lengthy the whole thing can be . |
(PS2BH) |
[210] Yea yeah yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[211] And it's er |
(PS2BH) |
[212] But it's so |
(PS2BG) |
[213] But |
(PS2BH) |
[214] much hurt, you know . |
(PS2BG) |
[215] That's right. |
(PS2BH) |
[216] [...] but Pete he he still getting up very early, he doesn't sleep |
(PS2BG) |
[217] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[218] very good . |
(PS2BG) |
[219] Yeah. [220] Yeah. [221] I mean in some ways |
(PS2BH) |
[222] And |
(PS2BG) |
[223] I think he's more effected by it than you. [224] And [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[225] I Like erm Psychologist said erm |
(PS2BG) |
[226] there's a lot of anger there isn't there? |
(PS2BH) |
[227] Yeah. [228] He says I'm still with denial, |
(PS2BG) |
[229] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[230] and Pete knows it's happened. |
(PS2BG) |
[231] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[232] I erm If i try not to give way, it leaves so much up here |
(PS2BG) |
[233] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[234] I can keep thinking it's not happened. |
(PS2BG) |
[235] Yeah. [236] That's right. [237] But |
(PS2BH) |
[238] You know. [239] But |
(PS2BG) |
[240] wor working through it all, it's very very painful. |
(PS2BH) |
[241] Yeah. |
(PS2BG) |
[242] And it's easier in the short term not to have [...] In the long term you get more problems. |
(PS2BH) |
[243] Yea yeah. [244] I I've found that. [245] You know, like I say, I try to do some things different, and then that don't work sometimes cos I think well why am I doing 'em like that. |
(PS2BG) |
[246] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[247] I wouldn't be doing this if it hadn't happened. [248] Do you do you |
(PS2BG) |
[249] Mhm. |
(PS2BH) |
[250] Do you now what I mean? [251] [sniff] So like you say it can cause [...] |
(PS2BG) | [cough] |
(PS2BH) |
[252] that few more problems. [253] But erm probably if we wasn't [...] so much and |
(PS2BG) |
[254] Mm. [255] I think he 'd be [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[256] I think sometimes he's still being protective. |
(PS2BG) |
[257] Yeah. |
(PS2BH) |
[258] He's still being protective . |
(PS2BG) |
[259] Mm. [260] That's right. |
(PS2BH) |
[261] And erm Dunno. [262] The police i know, went to see Rachael, and they still can't understand why he didn't use an islander, you know? |
(PS2BG) |
[263] No. |
(PS2BH) |
[264] And it's just unbelievable. |
(PS2BG) |
[265] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[266] But everybody's allowed a mistake but |
(PS2BG) | [...] |
(PS2BH) |
[267] when you've got a big articulated lorry , |
(PS2BG) |
[268] Bit of drastic mistake to make. |
(PS2BH) |
[269] You know if you You know I can't stop feeling as though that morning he used that lorry as a weapon. |
(PS2BG) |
[270] Mm. |
(PS2BH) |
[271] You know. [272] Er I don't [...] I think as it goes on y you do start and get that anger that anger so bad, but erm But I'll leave you to get on Doctor. [laugh] |
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(PS2BH) |
[273] And [...] [tape change] |